The Internal Negotiation No One Talks About with Takako Elliott
Summary
In this conversation, Takako Elliott and Amy Combrinck explore the intricate relationship between Negotiation and parenting.
They discuss how children naturally Negotiate from a young age, the impact of childhood experiences on adult Negotiation skills and the importance of self-advocacy for parents. Takako shares insights on how to navigate these challenges while fostering a healthy Negotiation mindset in both parenting and personal growth.
Key Takeaways
Children are born Negotiators, asking for what they want from a young age.
The way parents respond to children's requests shapes their Negotiation skills.
Personality plays a role in how children Negotiate and respond to rejection.
Childhood experiences can lead to learned behaviours around Negotiation and self-worth.
Parents often struggle to identify their own needs after having children.
Reparenting involves recognising and addressing past traumas that affect parenting styles.
Negotiating boundaries is essential for both parents and children.
Self-advocacy is crucial for parents returning to work after having children.
Asking for what you need is a fundamental part of Negotiation.
It's important to separate personal feelings from Negotiation outcomes.
Key Quotes
"What will people think?"
"Just ask a question."
"You have to back yourself."
